What should you be looking for in a relationship?

The most important part of anyone's relationship is found in conversation. Being with someone who serves as a great listener and as an outstanding conversationalist, will help you both build trust and respect. Discussing several aspects of the relationship and future plans is very important in order to keep the pair updated on each others wants and needs. Love is not only about passion, but also about comprehension and support.

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Suggestions:

- Tell each other about how your day went on a daily basis.

- Tell each other your dreams.

- Engage your mutual friends and families in the conversation.

- Always try to keep things interesting; talking about curious and oddly inspiring moments in both of your lives.

- Never keep secrets from each other.

- If there is something you are not comfortable with... tell him/her respectfully about it and work towards creating a solution.

Tips:

- Don't talk too much about yourself, a conversation is all about exchanging ideas, thoughts and feeling... TOGETHER.

- Try not to brag.

- Always respect the other person's ideas.

- Don't be too judgmental and remember that they are telling you those things as a show of trust. Therefore, they deserve the same amount of trust and respect.

- Always try to make yourself available to the people you care about the most whenever they have something important to tell you... it can surprise you how having you listening to them can positively impact their lives and demonstrate them how much you care.

- Make sure to think before you speak.

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Regardless of age, gender, preference or interests, people should always look for someone they know they can trust as much as they can love. Do not be blinded by the lights of deceit; learn how to read a person and whether or not they can be truthful and meaningful while they're hanging out with you. It is all about the content of their character, and what they can add to your life. People with great conversations are most likely to be interesting, supportive and intelligent. Note that a conversation does not need to be about the wonders of the scientific world in order to be considered intelligent and worthwhile; the best conversations tend to be about the simplest of things that make us feel happy and wondrous. With that being said, I encourage you to go out there and start looking for Mr. or Mrs. Perfect! ;)

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